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好，我無聊，雖然心情煩，但是在網路上亂逛，有看到可以拿來充版面的東西，就拿來放一下免得這又雜草叢生!
其實是想幫一個好姊妹打理一下，所以在ivillage.com閒逛，順便放空腦袋，看到這篇文章總覺得應該要分享給眾多跟我一樣的宅女姊妹們，也算是提醒自己吧! (Yeah~ if I really do care~)
source: ivillage.com
Meeting Mr. Right: 10 Ways to Make a Great First Impression
預見白馬王子: 十個留下美好第一印象的方法
Picture this. You and the cutest guy you've ever glimpsed are on an elevator speeding down to the ground floor. Or the scene is the grocery store and the handsome hunk of your desires is squeezing melons in the next aisle. Your palms are sweaty; your mouth is dry. If you don't say or do the right thing, your window of opportunity to hook this handsome stranger will close. What's an interested singleton to do?
想像一下。你跟你畢生看過最可愛的男生搭上同一台下樓電梯，或是在超級市場你喜歡的那型帥哥正在隔壁走道挑選香瓜。你的手心開始冒汗，你的嘴巴開始乾澀。如果你不說或採取正確的舉動，你跟這個帥哥陌生人搭上線的機會就稍縱即逝了。一個有興趣的單身女子該要怎麼做?
<中間偷省略一段有關於介紹提供下列建議的機構。提供建議的這位Adele Testani，基本上是一個辦三分鐘相親的機構的創辦人之一，以她看過許多好的跟不好的例子之後的建議!>
1. Relax. 放鬆
Testani has seen those overeager to impress make many mistakes, ranging from talking way too fast to spilling a drink on their intended to tipping over a table. She says, "Before you launch into your clever spiel that you are sure will attract the other person, take a deep breath. Have a brief reality check. What happens in the next few minutes is not that important in the scheme of things. Just try to have fun and not be too tied to the outcome."
Testani看過太多極度渴望要讓人印象深刻反倒弄巧成拙的例子，從講話太快到打翻飲料。「在你打算開始你那想要吸引對方的聰明行銷手法時，先深呼吸。好好回到真實世界。接下來的短短幾分鐘對於你的陰謀並沒有致命的影響。只要試著享受，然後別太在乎結果!」
2. Catch the "fun bug."
Don't be Serious Sarah. Surely you've noticed how everyone gravitates to the person in the room who looks most like she's enjoying herself. Testani says, "Looking like you're having a good time is contagious. Besides, you're probably cuter when you smile."
別當認真魔人。相信你一定也注意到大家總是被最能夠自得其樂的人吸引。Testani說「給人感覺你很愉快這件事情是具傳染性的，更何況，你笑起來時可能更可愛。」
3. Don't knock yourself out trying to be clever.
Think about how much you hate guys' lame pickup lines. That's because they're usually forced and unnatural. The best line is no line. Try, "Hello, my name is ..."
想想你多恨男生那種很遜的搭訕台詞。原因是這些爛台詞通常都不是發自內心又不自然。最好的搭訕詞就是沒有台詞。試試看「你好，我的名字是…」
4. The eyes have it.
"Looking in the direction of a guy's crotch is as rude as him staring at your bosom," warns the dating expert. She adds, "It isn't much better to look off to the side or at another person." Gaze warmly into his eyes and hopefully one day soon you'll be gazing together at the moon.
約會專家警告:「盯著男人跨下的方向跟他盯著你的胸部看是一樣無禮的。」另外，「完全不看他看向另一個方向或是看著其他人，也是很不禮貌的。」試著溫暖的看著對方的眼睛，然後希望很快的有一天你們可以在月光下注視著對方…
粉累了, 剩下的明天有心情再補好了~
其實是想幫一個好姊妹打理一下，所以在ivillage.com閒逛，順便放空腦袋，看到這篇文章總覺得應該要分享給眾多跟我一樣的宅女姊妹們，也算是提醒自己吧! (Yeah~ if I really do care~)
source: ivillage.com
Meeting Mr. Right: 10 Ways to Make a Great First Impression
預見白馬王子: 十個留下美好第一印象的方法
Picture this. You and the cutest guy you've ever glimpsed are on an elevator speeding down to the ground floor. Or the scene is the grocery store and the handsome hunk of your desires is squeezing melons in the next aisle. Your palms are sweaty; your mouth is dry. If you don't say or do the right thing, your window of opportunity to hook this handsome stranger will close. What's an interested singleton to do?
想像一下。你跟你畢生看過最可愛的男生搭上同一台下樓電梯，或是在超級市場你喜歡的那型帥哥正在隔壁走道挑選香瓜。你的手心開始冒汗，你的嘴巴開始乾澀。如果你不說或採取正確的舉動，你跟這個帥哥陌生人搭上線的機會就稍縱即逝了。一個有興趣的單身女子該要怎麼做?
<中間偷省略一段有關於介紹提供下列建議的機構。提供建議的這位Adele Testani，基本上是一個辦三分鐘相親的機構的創辦人之一，以她看過許多好的跟不好的例子之後的建議!>
1. Relax. 放鬆
Testani has seen those overeager to impress make many mistakes, ranging from talking way too fast to spilling a drink on their intended to tipping over a table. She says, "Before you launch into your clever spiel that you are sure will attract the other person, take a deep breath. Have a brief reality check. What happens in the next few minutes is not that important in the scheme of things. Just try to have fun and not be too tied to the outcome."
Testani看過太多極度渴望要讓人印象深刻反倒弄巧成拙的例子，從講話太快到打翻飲料。「在你打算開始你那想要吸引對方的聰明行銷手法時，先深呼吸。好好回到真實世界。接下來的短短幾分鐘對於你的陰謀並沒有致命的影響。只要試著享受，然後別太在乎結果!」
2. Catch the "fun bug."
Don't be Serious Sarah. Surely you've noticed how everyone gravitates to the person in the room who looks most like she's enjoying herself. Testani says, "Looking like you're having a good time is contagious. Besides, you're probably cuter when you smile."
別當認真魔人。相信你一定也注意到大家總是被最能夠自得其樂的人吸引。Testani說「給人感覺你很愉快這件事情是具傳染性的，更何況，你笑起來時可能更可愛。」
3. Don't knock yourself out trying to be clever.
Think about how much you hate guys' lame pickup lines. That's because they're usually forced and unnatural. The best line is no line. Try, "Hello, my name is ..."
想想你多恨男生那種很遜的搭訕台詞。原因是這些爛台詞通常都不是發自內心又不自然。最好的搭訕詞就是沒有台詞。試試看「你好，我的名字是…」
4. The eyes have it.
"Looking in the direction of a guy's crotch is as rude as him staring at your bosom," warns the dating expert. She adds, "It isn't much better to look off to the side or at another person." Gaze warmly into his eyes and hopefully one day soon you'll be gazing together at the moon.
約會專家警告:「盯著男人跨下的方向跟他盯著你的胸部看是一樣無禮的。」另外，「完全不看他看向另一個方向或是看著其他人，也是很不禮貌的。」試著溫暖的看著對方的眼睛，然後希望很快的有一天你們可以在月光下注視著對方…
粉累了, 剩下的明天有心情再補好了~
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